ep. 81 - How curiosity builds respect
I get a lot of haters in my comments. And while that comes with the territory and seems to be the cultural norm these days, I have to believe we can speak to each other differently. And while I’m not a saint, and clap back at times, I do try to practice what I preach. And that is to get curious as to why the person is saying what they’re saying. You’ll see me write “I’m curious…” to start many of my responses.
In this episode I share how curiosity is such an overlooked yet potent tool for fostering respect. I break down how this models respect, teaches conflict management, emotional intelligence, regulates the nervous system and creates a deep level of trust, safety and … you guessed it, respect.
Also please re-listen to episode 40 - Understanding Drives Respect https://www.responseableparenting.com/podcast/ep-40-understanding-drives-respect
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